This is probably the 'hottest' topic in the world! Everyone's ears sharpen when they find out that your dating or interested in someone...even if you don't know them!!!
oh do u know your uncle's daughter's friend's step sister??? i believe she RAN away with someone....what has the world come to...we are interested in knowing someone else's family story and we haven't met them....
i guess we are all human...there is a natural curiosity to know why things like this happen, infact we get to the extreme of telling everyone we know and try and coordinate this information from all sources. oh she said that to you??? and she said this to me??? what does that mean??? OH I GET IT NOW...cheeky bitch she didn't tell me that!...
but these are difficult subjects and u can't just pounce at them with questions......but sometimes its best one doesn't know all the complications. circumstances make you do so many things and you just don't have control over it.....
so how do u know if a topic is hot or not??? i'll tell you its different regionally! you have got to take my word for it. if your in a place like england or the states....you could hug a guy, tell him you love spending time with him...and still have a serious relationship with someone who is allright with the situation because he has plenty of friends who are girls..
it depends on the person, the place and how you interpret things. i remember going to visit one of my aunt's in madras and she whispers to me...'you know, that girl (our neighbour) has fallen in LLLooovvvveee with that boy!!! ...her eyebrows widened..... i always see them exchanging.............................BOOKS'.
At first like all normal people i leaned in thinking it was good juice and then my expression changed....to...umm HUHHHH? your point??
i agree that was lame. but i do think things are done a lot differently...a girl i knew packed lunch for her so called 'crush' every day....they took the same electives to spend more time with each other, had LOTS OF eye contact, took walks on the beach, ran up each other's phone bills and finally got married....i thought to myself...SO SOON? i didn't see the chemistry! i thought they were friends....
Anyway, I was in college and one of my hostel/hall mates was hanging out with this girl. they have been friends for a while and they got along very well. One night they were on his bed watching a film.....(yea i know what your thinking....)lol...it was just a film! the movie ended...there was nothing to talk about and she kissed him. she left after and never brought it up. the poor guy thought there was possibly a future in it. On bringing it up later, she said, 'oh i was really bored that day...that's why, i had nothing else to do'...oh fyi i am seeing this guy from brussels now....ok later!
so...do u see the difference? (it totally depends on the individual too.....i think places do make a difference though...don't get me wrong!)
oh do u know your uncle's daughter's friend's step sister??? i believe she RAN away with someone....what has the world come to...we are interested in knowing someone else's family story and we haven't met them....
i guess we are all human...there is a natural curiosity to know why things like this happen, infact we get to the extreme of telling everyone we know and try and coordinate this information from all sources. oh she said that to you??? and she said this to me??? what does that mean??? OH I GET IT NOW...cheeky bitch she didn't tell me that!...
but these are difficult subjects and u can't just pounce at them with questions......but sometimes its best one doesn't know all the complications. circumstances make you do so many things and you just don't have control over it.....
so how do u know if a topic is hot or not??? i'll tell you its different regionally! you have got to take my word for it. if your in a place like england or the states....you could hug a guy, tell him you love spending time with him...and still have a serious relationship with someone who is allright with the situation because he has plenty of friends who are girls..
it depends on the person, the place and how you interpret things. i remember going to visit one of my aunt's in madras and she whispers to me...'you know, that girl (our neighbour) has fallen in LLLooovvvveee with that boy!!! ...her eyebrows widened..... i always see them exchanging.............................BOOKS'.
At first like all normal people i leaned in thinking it was good juice and then my expression changed....to...umm HUHHHH? your point??
i agree that was lame. but i do think things are done a lot differently...a girl i knew packed lunch for her so called 'crush' every day....they took the same electives to spend more time with each other, had LOTS OF eye contact, took walks on the beach, ran up each other's phone bills and finally got married....i thought to myself...SO SOON? i didn't see the chemistry! i thought they were friends....
Anyway, I was in college and one of my hostel/hall mates was hanging out with this girl. they have been friends for a while and they got along very well. One night they were on his bed watching a film.....(yea i know what your thinking....)lol...it was just a film! the movie ended...there was nothing to talk about and she kissed him. she left after and never brought it up. the poor guy thought there was possibly a future in it. On bringing it up later, she said, 'oh i was really bored that day...that's why, i had nothing else to do'...oh fyi i am seeing this guy from brussels now....ok later!
so...do u see the difference? (it totally depends on the individual too.....i think places do make a difference though...don't get me wrong!)
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